What if success did not have to come at the expense of your peace of mind?
That is the question Jess Ekstrom explores in her newest book, Making It Without Losing It: How to Stay Motivated in a World Where We Are Never Done. In a culture that constantly pushes people to hustle harder, achieve more, and chase the next milestone, Ekstrom offers a refreshing reminder that ambition and fulfillment do not have to compete with each other.
For professionals, leaders, entrepreneurs, and high achievers who often feel caught between productivity and burnout, this book delivers an honest and encouraging perspective on redefining success in a healthier, more sustainable way.
Why This Book Stands Out
Jess Ekstrom has built her career around entrepreneurship, leadership, and helping others amplify their voices. As the founder of Headbands of Hope and Mic Drop Workshop, she understands firsthand the pressure that comes with constantly striving for more.
What makes Making It Without Losing It so impactful is its balance of practical insight and authenticity. Rather than promoting another “work harder” mindset, Ekstrom challenges the belief that happiness and fulfillment only come after we finally “make it.”
Through humor, personal storytelling, and research-backed ideas, she encourages readers to stop postponing joy for some future version of success that always seems just out of reach.
What Readers Will Take Away
One of the strongest themes throughout the book is the idea that external success does not automatically create internal fulfillment.
Ekstrom introduces concepts like defining your own “success fingerprint” and embracing an “Arrived Mindset,” the belief that you are already enough while still pursuing growth and ambition.
Readers will also explore:
- How hustle culture fuels burnout and constant dissatisfaction
- Why intrinsic motivation matters more than external validation
- How to stay ambitious without sacrificing mental well-being
- The importance of redefining success on your own terms
- Practical ways to create sustainable motivation and purpose
The book feels especially relevant in today’s professional world, where achievement is often celebrated while rest, balance, and fulfillment are treated as secondary priorities.
About Jess Ekstrom
Jess Ekstrom is a bestselling author, entrepreneur, and speaker known for her work in leadership, purpose-driven business, and personal development. She founded Headbands of Hope, a company that donates headbands to children battling cancer, and later launched Mic Drop Workshop to help women become confident speakers and thought leaders.
Her message resonates because it is grounded in lived experience. Ekstrom openly shares the realities of balancing ambition, anxiety, purpose, and personal well-being in a world that often rewards overwork.
Why It Belongs on Your Reading List
Making It Without Losing It is more than a motivational book. It is a thoughtful conversation about success, identity, and how we want our lives to actually feel while pursuing our goals.
For anyone who has ever tied their worth to productivity, struggled with burnout, or felt pressure to constantly achieve more, this book offers a meaningful shift in perspective.
Ekstrom reminds readers that success should not require sacrificing joy, peace, or authenticity along the way. Sometimes the healthiest mindset shift is realizing that fulfillment is not something waiting for us at the finish line. It can exist in the present, too.
Final Thoughts from Midwest Speakers Bureau
At Midwest Speakers Bureau, we believe the most impactful leaders are not only driven and ambitious, but also intentional about creating lives and careers rooted in purpose, authenticity, and balance.
Jess Ekstrom’s Making It Without Losing It offers an important reminder that meaningful success is not just about achievement. It is about learning how to pursue growth without losing yourself in the process.
For anyone navigating leadership, entrepreneurship, personal growth, or professional development, this book is a valuable addition to your reading list and a timely conversation about redefining what it truly means to “make it.”

